Leah has dedicated 30 years to solving The Hidden Executive Crisis that's destroying professional organizations. Drawing from her Native heritage and organizational transformation expertise, she's developed the proven methodologies that help leaders stop talent exodus and build thriving, respectful teams.


As the creator of the ADAIS framework and the 90-Second Respect Reset, Leah specializes in transforming toxic workplace cultures into ...

Respect isn't just about being polite or following social rules. It's about:

🌟 Remember what it means to be respectful and pull it to the forefront of your mind

⚖️ Equity the idea of justice that creates a level playing field for everyone

✨ Sincerity in saying what you mean and meaning what you say

⏰ Patience the art of waiting that allows us to engage with others at their pace of learning and being

💝 Empathy recognizing that we all sha...

The organization around you is a reflection of the leader within you. 


Every talent exodus you face, every toxic pressure pattern that emerges, every crisis that keeps repeating—it all starts with how you see and treat yourself as a leader.


You can't give what you don't have. You can't create respectful teams if you've never learned to lead yourself with respect. 

You can't build thriving cultures if you don't honor your own leadership ...

What We Are All About

Everything we do is rooted in RESPECT. The tools, models, frameworks, and methodologies that we teach and live are all about.


Unleashing the Power of Respect in Professional Services.


Dynamic Speaking & Training. "The Respect Emergency" keynote and workshops that don't just inspire—they equip leaders with practical tools for immediate transformation. Whether you're facing talent exodus or building thriving teams, these experiences create shifts that stick and drive measurable results.


Crisis Coaching: Executive Transformation. A flexible transformation system designed specifically for professional services leaders ready to solve The Hidden Executive Crisis. From assessment to sustained change—this is your bridge from toxic workplace to thriving enterprise.


Executive Leadership Intensives. Immersive 3-day experiences for leadership teams ready to transform their organizational culture. These intensive retreats create deep, lasting transformation using Ancient Wisdom tools that unlock your team's potential and give you the systems to maintain your growth.

Who We Serve


Professional Services Leaders Facing The Hidden Executive Crisis. If you're tired of losing your best people to preventable culture issues and you're ready to transform toxic pressure into respectful performance, we're here for you.


C-Suite Executives Seeking Sustainable Results. Managing partners, senior executives, and emerging leaders who want to create lasting change through respect-based leadership. You know there's a better way to lead under pressure, and you're ready to master it.


Organizations Committed to Transformation. Leadership teams and professional services firms ready to move beyond surface-level solutions and create cultures built on genuine respect that drives competitive advantage.


Leaders Ready for Ancient Wisdom. Anyone who recognizes that timeless principles solve modern problems and is ready to do the deep work of transforming leadership patterns that no longer serve their organization's success.

Our Origin Story: The Day the Trees Fell Silent


Many years ago, there was a cluster of trees that became my sanctuary—my grounding place where I went to find peace, clarity, and connection. These weren't just trees to me; they were family. Their roots ran deep, their branches reached wide, and in their presence, I felt whole.


One day, I walked to my sacred place and found nothing but empty ground. The trees were gone—leveled, destroyed, erased as if they had never existed. The grief hit me like a physical blow. But it wasn't just the loss of nature that broke my heart. It was something deeper.


In that moment of devastation, a profound truth crystallized: If people can't even live in respect with one another, how can we respect anything else?


Those trees had been cut down not out of necessity, but out of disconnection—a failure to see their value, their role in the ecosystem, their right to exist. It was the same disconnection I witnessed everywhere: in relationships where people talked at each other instead of with each other, in workplaces where human dignity was sacrificed for productivity, in families where love became conditional on compliance.


Standing in that empty space where my tree family once stood, I realized my life's work wasn't just about teaching communication skills or conflict resolution. It was about something much more fundamental: helping people remember how to see the sacred in themselves and others.


That moment of loss became my moment of calling. My heritage and lineage knew that respect isn't just a nice idea or a social courtesy—it's the foundation of everything. 


But others don't.


And they lack the skills and tools to learn.


When we truly respect ourselves, we naturally extend that respect to others. 


When we respect others, we begin to honor the world around us. 


When we live from respect, we create the conditions for everything else to flourish.


Those trees may be gone, but their lesson lives on in every person I work with, every framework I teach, every transformation I witness. 


Because... 


when we learn to cultivate respectful communication, respectful conflict negotiation, respectful leadership, and ultimately respectful living, we're not just changing ourselves. 


We're healing the disconnection that allows sacred things to be destroyed without a second thought.


This is why I do this work.


Because respect isn't just about how we treat each other


It's about remembering that everything and everyone has inherent worth. We are all SACRED.


And that remembering? It changes everything.

The Core of With Respect LLC

Our Approach: Where Ancient Wisdom Meets Modern Transformation


We Don't Fix—We Transform

Most approaches try to fix what's broken. We help you transform what's possible. Instead of focusing on what's wrong, we focus on what's ready to emerge when respect becomes your foundation.


The Power of Respect as Your Core Tool

Respect isn't just a value—it's your most powerful transformation tool. When you truly understand and embody respect (for yourself and others), it naturally shifts how you:

  • Communicate in conflict
  • Set and maintain boundaries
  • Lead with authentic authority
  • Navigate difficult relationships
  • Show up in challenging situations

Ancient Wisdom + Modern Psychology

We blend time-tested principles from Native American traditions with cutting-edge organizational psychology. This isn't just theory—it's practical wisdom that's been proven over centuries, now backed by modern science.


Behavioral Change Without Shame

Traditional approaches often use shame, blame, or guilt to motivate change. Our frameworks honor your dignity while shifting patterns. We meet you where you are, not where you think you should be.


Root-Cause Transformation

Instead of managing symptoms, we address the source. We help you identify and transform the core patterns, perspectives, and beliefs that drive behaviors—creating change that lasts because it comes from within.


The RESPECT Framework in Action


Every tool we teach is built on our foundational RESPECT principles:

  • Remembering your worth
  • Empathy for yourself and others
  • Sincerity in communication
  • Patience with the process
  • Equity in relationships
  • Compassion in action
  • Truthfulness without judgment

Practical Tools, Not Just Concepts

You leave every interaction with us—whether it's a keynote, coaching session, or retreat—with specific, actionable tools you can implement immediately. Transformation happens through practice, not just understanding.

Our Promise


When you work with With Respect LLC, you receive more than tools and techniques—you experience deep transformation. Our clients don't just learn new frameworks; they integrate these respect-based principles fully into how they think, relate, and show up in the world. The result: lasting personal change that becomes a natural part of every conversation, decision, and relationship—transforming not just how you lead, but how you live.


Whether you're breaking free from toxic relationship patterns, elevating your leadership impact, or creating the life you truly want, our proven frameworks don't just teach you what to do—they transform who you become. Because when respect becomes your foundation, everything else shifts naturally.


This isn't temporary change that fades when life gets hard. This is transformation that lasts because it comes from within.


Ready to Begin Your Transformation?


Whether it's transforming your relationships, elevating your leadership, or creating lasting change in your life or organization, 


we're here to guide you every step of the way.


CONTACT ME to get started today



Who's Idea Is This?

Leah Kyaio

Meet Leah - The Executive Crisis Whisperer (Yes, That's Really A Thing)


Leah is the leader who figured out that Ancient Wisdom isn't just for meditation retreats—it's actually the secret sauce for solving modern workplace disasters. 


With 30 years of transforming toxic professional services environments (think: lawyers who've forgotten how to be human and accountants who've weaponized spreadsheets), she's become the go-to expert for leaders who are tired of watching their best people flee faster than tourists from a timeshare presentation.


Drawing from her Native heritage and three decades of organizational psychology, Leah created the ADAIS methodology and the famous "90-Second Respect Reset"—because apparently, it only takes 90 seconds to stop being a terrible boss. Who knew?


She's the author of the upcoming book "The Hidden Executive Crisis: How Good Leaders Create Bad Cultures (Without Knowing It)" and delivers "The Respect Emergency" keynote to organizations brave enough to admit they might be the problem. 


Her tagline? "Where Respect Meets Results"—because she's proven that being nice actually makes you money.


When she's not busy convincing C-suite executives that respect isn't a bad word, Leah enjoys proving that "soft skills" are actually the hardest part of business strategy. 


Her clients consistently say things like "I finally understand why we're losing good people" and "This isn't touchy-feely—this is strategic transformation."


Fair warning: She'll make you question everything you thought you knew about leadership, and you'll probably thank her for it.